If you -- or whomever you're advising -- does something as unwise as moving in the 16 year old's "boyfriend" it is extremely important you/they do something first before he arrives.
Go through your entire house and garage, every closet, every chest, every bank of shelves, any trunks, and anything with any value that is pawnable, lock it away in storage
off your property. Guns, knives, ammo, good fishing tackle and camping gear, jewelry, watches, Sterling silverware or silver dishes, etc. If it has value, store it because if you do not, there will come the day when you come home and most of your stuff will be missing.
Just a suggestion from a member here who is a realist about Human Nature.
L.W.
