We wanted a simple wedding, in the chapel, just witnesses, the priest, and immediate family with an open reception after. Every one but my mother agreed and she got her way. In her opinion if you invite them to the reception you have to invite them to the wedding.
Kept it small, one attendant on each side, ushers, guest book attendant. Had a friend sing and a string quartet (featuring two of my oncologists daughters) provided the music which, in my opinion, was wonderful.
Had an open reception after. Wife and MIL did most of the cooking and all of the decorations. Had a band made up of friends play at the reception and they were great.
Cost us maybe 2g, most out of our own pockets.
My advice-keep it simple and meaningful. EVERYONE who had a part in the wedding inclusing the singer, band, and quartet, meant something to us.
I will never forget it.
