This WAS the 2nd time around. 1st wife got 7 year itch and scratched it. Decided she liked him better than me. Divorced me in Aug. and married him in Dec. 20 months later she divorced him and started messing around with a married fellow. Don't think it happened in that order though. Couple years later he got divorced and they got married. Chitty part was she drug our daughter thru all that mess. Summer between 7th & 8th grade daughter came for the summer and told her mom she wasn't coming back. Dec. 2012 her real mom lost a 3 year battle to breast cancer. So the X2B is the only mom she has left. So yeah, I am encouraging my daughter to maintain a relationship with her if she wants to.
