I've been quietly sitting on the sidelines here for 7 pages.
Here is my take:
What payment is jarheads FFL requesting?
If Jarhead is a scammer, I think he would have vanished by now. If 284BLR received payment for said item, then I don't see a problem with Jarhead.
I see a breakdown in communication. And some/too much name calling and possible typing while drinking? Or?
I'm not taking sides at all, but Jarhead needs to take some time to compose himself, type using punctuation and check for spelling errors and be sure all phone numbers are correct and email back all FFL information to 284. Perhaps jarheads FFL is expecting up front payment from him for the transfer? Perhaps the FFL has mixed up who they sent their FFL to?
Now, back to my popcorn to continue watching.
Good luck boys,
Ed