I find the argument that some bible thumping couple with adopted teenagers that are misbehaving very compelling...... Never met a bible thumping couple who had trouble with their own teenagers. /s
Especially them other "Dutch" folks, of the Pennsylvania variety. They never have misbehaving kids, even during that rumschpringe stuff. Them kids always the epitome of comportment and manners, and then right back to the community to get married off.