Did you see this month's NRA "Shooting Illustrated" (Feb 2022)?

They have 2 articles that might interest you.
The first is "A Bullet is a Bullet" that talks about a few designs and how selection is basically irrelevant for home defense.
The second is "Testing Home-Defense Ammo for Carbines" and it gets into a lot of detailed testing scenarios for several bullet designs.


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