This.
They invited me which means this while thing was their idea. Pisses my wife off because I never want to take anything.
When we put something on we make and supply everything. My idea I will take care of it.
+1 In my circle of family and friends it’s the same way. We cover all the main stuff and most the time the woman coordinate the deserts/salads and guys always show up with drinks!
If you are feeling inclined to bring a side dish you can never go wrong with a bunch of jalapeños poppers!