I’ve always thought that the idea that it is judgmental to caution people so afflicted against the dangers inherent to adopting this lifestyle (much less the identity) seemed in itself perverse.

If my kid is running for the street is it a sign of love and acceptance to not yell for them to stop so as to save their potentially hurt feelings?

I love people; therefore I’ll kindly but firmly suggest that their creator knows how they can best fulfill their purpose. To do any less would be selfish & unkind.