Well I have personally attended AA/NA meetings . The person in question has to decide for themself whether their life is no longer manageable and is willing to give it all over to a Higher Power. They must decide whether or not they are sick and tired of being sick and tired. That’s just the way it is. Significant others /family play no part besides a support role. Although they can be enablers. Ultimately, it is up to each individual to decide.

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