In 3 pages of responses over a 1+ week period, has anyone been able to come up with a pistol that meets your rather specific stated criteria?

In terms of technical criteria, you could look for discontinued D model (DAO) Berettas such as the 92D or Cougar (8000D or 8000D Mini-Cougar), some discontinued S&W DAO guns,and Sig DAK models, but they all are going to be some big chunks of gun that may or may not work for racking, and you are going to have to hunt for the guns and spare magazines. ETA: Those all are going to be 9mm, not .380.

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