With all due respect, from the limited information, there’s a strong possibility your pops is a phugging narcissist. Might even have Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Your mom probably shoulda bailed decades ago.

Read up on it. If he is, phugg his pride, cut bait. Better late than never.

"Your range of experience runs that gamut from A to B, plus you're a nitwit. That's a hard combination to overcome, though some people try." - JB