" ... He's accused us of raising our daughter to be a racist, right wing, Christian. In fact last summer he took her to a psychiatrist to have her diagnosed as a racist. This came about because our daughter refused to eat a middle eastern restaurant that only served halal meat. ..."
Whoa!! I just saw this. I'm not a psychologist, but it sounds to me as if the West Point dude is a sociopath. There is nothing "normal" about trying to have a psychiatrist establish an aberrant "medical label" for your daughter that could well follow her the rest of her life.
You're dealing with a demented person, in my opinion. Retain documentation of the "psychiatrist" episode.
Be careful who shows up at your door.
L.W.
Can someone really BE diagnosed as a racist?
What kind of meds do that give for that clinical condition?
I think he just diagnosed himself as being a controlling azzhole.