I'm going with divorce rates varying by region. Very recently in CA, it was revealed that over 50% of all first marriages end in divorce. I'd guess that small town marriages last longer than big city marriages.

We cannot neglect the impact of social media on marriages. Because of social media, women stray as much as men.

Last night I hung out with a chick I used to date about eight years ago. She's an RN. She's now menopausal. She's almost a different person. She has had at least one negative encounter with law enforcement. While she used to be very good looking with a smoking hot body (she owned her own fitness company on the side), she's put on a lot of weight. She kept telling me last night that she didn't want to sound like a man hater, but...

She had stayed in a very nice hotel in an elite So Cal beach city. She wanted me to spend the night. It didn't happen.

A woman's hormone system has to be the most complex system in the human body. When it's outta whack, women are whacked. There's no tellin' what an out-of-hormone-whack chick will do.

However, the biggest problem plaguing relationships, at least in CA, is one totally effed up and completely dysfunctional family law system. With very little variation, the least capable lawyers hustle family law, and the least capable judges are assigned to family law. It's a combination destined for injustice. I was told that CA family law is a game, a mockery of American jurisprudence in which the best liar wins. Even a former family law lawyer told me this. He quit the circus because it is obviously intentionally dysfunctional.

Dirtbags who hustle family law make livings destroying families and churn their incomes by creating acrimony where none exists. A family law lawyer has to have no pride to disclose that he destroys families for a living.

Anyway, that chick and I sat on the beach for a couple hours. I have no clue why many women even bother wearing bikinis because many walk around virtually naked. The point is a dude in a strained marriage can find easy consolation within the arms of many sweet, young thangs (SYT's). BTW, within the rich dude crowd of So Cal, SYT's are known as "sponsored" as in rich dudes keep them on payroll. The SYT's make serious judgment errors when they think that their sponsors will leave their wives and families for the much younger model. That only happens when STY's tie in to a really stupid rich dude, which is rare. Many SYT's live large for years only to suddenly find themselves on waivers and too old to get back in the gold digging game.


Last edited by SakoAV; 08/30/16.