Talking about the legacy left behind by any deceased is not disrespect. sometimes it happens to be
what some consider a despicable/dishonorable legacy they left behind,and sometimes not, it is what
it is whatever it is....I don't see it as a taboo subject either way.
There's always time for that after an appropriate duration.
One can do nothing but praise the dead at their eulogy before they are even in the ground, but how long
does one need to wait to point out the less admirable aspects of that person life?
Is in the car on the way to the wake too soon?...
