You are welcome to think what you will, but I just don't have it in me. Life is too complicated at home to spend the energy here strategizing anything. I asked a simple question, why do we wait until someone dies to say something nice about him? Why not make the effort while we are still alive and have a chance to effect some change for the better? Used my family as na example of how those choices affect a persons mental state later.
I have no idea how that could ever be construed as a bad idea but look, the thread speaks for itself.
