Wabigoon, I hope you got a satisfactory response to your OP because I don't want to derail this. But seeing as there is a lot of comment, I wanted to put this up there for our Christian brothers. The feminization and homosexualization of Christianity is probably the biggest factor in the decline of Christianity.

This is an interesting history of the process here - https://www.docdroid.net/pa7m/leon-j-podles-the-church-impotent-the-feminization-of-christianity.pdf

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