Years ago, my brother's friend got a bride from the Philippines. He went over there and married her. Then he returned to the US to get her visa settled. That cost him about $25k. When she got off the plane in the US, she had her visa in one hand and divorce papers in the other. It cost him another $25k to get rid of her.

“In a time of deceit telling the truth is a revolutionary act.”
― George Orwell

It's not over when you lose. It's over when you quit.