One of my coworkers brought a woman over from China. He lost a bunch of weight, learned Mandarin, and she packs his lunch every day. He seems happy. She's fairly close in age to him.
As a guy married to a Chinese woman (not mail order), I can tell you beyond a shadow of a doubt that she put him on a diet and an allowance. They can save money like nobody’s business. They can stretch a penny forever and they despise debt. They will try to control their men through puzzy or otherwise, but it’s honestly with good intentions...it’s just their culture. Mine hasn’t been very successful as I’m a hard-headed Kraut. I have decided to let her handle the money because she is very good at it. It doesn’t hurt that for the first time in my life I am with a woman who brought more money into the relationship than I did.
