I haven't read much of this and I assume that some are very pro and some very anti. I got married a couple years after college and that one was a big ++. We had in 33 years before cancer took her. A couple years later, I remarried and we have in 12. It's another big ++. I wouldn't trade either of them for anything.

“In a time of deceit telling the truth is a revolutionary act.”
― George Orwell

It's not over when you lose. It's over when you quit.