I often go EVA and torso prolite which is a decent combo but not as comfy as the down mat. I sometimes add a Lawson Eva pad under the downmat but it is not substantial enough to be used on its own.
I may somewhat redo my setup but I would probably start with a ccf / Eva I can feel ok with in case of failure and then add the comfort factor. The neo xlite is comfortable but loud. I doubt it would bother me much sleeping on it, but I might kick a restless tent mate out that used one