My father is 88 and my mother is 84. They own a farm in ND.... the land has been rented out to an area farmer since 1998. They will not let, as far as I know, any of the children know their intentions after they pass. They have been the kind of people that will , naïvely , take the word of a stranger over their own children.... they refuse to, as far as I know, allow anyone in the family to understand what their plans are after they pass.
I am sure it will be a cluster fuq at some point. So be it.... some of my arse licking siblings will "take care of things".... whatever .....
