I got one back in 2002. The wife died and I got lost in the bottle every night for many many years after that... Took me about 15 years to start living again.
Now there’s a story of note, sorry for your loss, she must have been wonderful.
"...if the gentlemen of Virginia shall send us a dozen of their sons, we would take great care in their education, instruct them in all we know, and make men of them." Canasatego 1744
