Just for the record....Neither Curdog, nor his son, have a wife at the present time. The Lady mentioned is my son's ex-wife and, I'll repeat myself, she is a GOOD woman.
Being an Atheist doesn't preclude being a good person when judging by the world's standard. And THAT is the only standard available to me.
"For who can know the heart of a man......... " ?
That is very true. There will be a lot of good people go to hell though, unfortunately.