Flagstaff has posted the most helpful comment so far.

You're telling us you know on social media your kid was hammered by these clods? Honestly, they need to feel some pain and their parents need to be aware as well. Even cyber-acts should have consequences. I understand cyber bullying is nothing like the real thing, but when I was bullied and pushed around, my folks knew about it and helped me deal with it myself.

I'd be all over any option I had to at least let the bullying kids know they "helped" and to make sure everyone ELSE knows they "helped."

Hang in there, Devnull. I've lost some dear friends, thankfully not family, and while the pain never fully fades, and the questions are never answered, there are lessons to be learned -- and taught.


Up hills slow,
Down hills fast
Tonnage first and
Safety last.