You and your family have my deepest condolences. I can't begin to know how you feel at this time, but let me commend you for having the courage it took to post this. Internalizing your grief can only be harmful to your own physical, mental, spiritual and emotional health. You will need that same strength in the days ahead for your wife, your daughter, and yourself.
The biggest problem our country has is not systemic racism, it's systemic stupidity.
