I agree with Bluedreaux.
So many kids have had their whole lives uprooted and everything they had known was ripped apart. Kids need a stable and solid life AND parents...and so many of them have been dragged through so much $ch!t and disaster and drama that they had no control over...ALL for selfish reasons of their parents.
If we don't intentionally give our kids what we should...then we will accidentally and unintentionally give them what we shouldn't. Wherever family identity is strong, peer pressure is gonna be weak...but wherever family identity is weak, peer pressure is gonna be strong. Family stability is predictive of children's well-being.
And the parents minimize the effect that their selfish actions have on their kids. Parents can be some pretty selfish mofo's...!
