All I can tell you is that I have plenty of experience also, and that my experiences differ from yours. And that whether or not you choose to believe any ballistics/data, or the quotes from the reloading manuals, I only posted them because they state exactly what I already know to be true from real world experience.
When you tell me "35 caliber holes in and 35 caliber holes out on deer", well that is just simply a phenomenon I have yet to witness with a 35 Remington...
