AS, I’ve read all of your posts on this thread...and they remind me of this...“If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.” - Matthew 19:10.
Tell your sons, tell your grandsons....best to be careful out there and to choose wisely.
You didn't use logic or reason to get into this opinion, I cannot use logic or reason to get you out of it.
You cannot over estimate the unimportance of nearly everything. John Maxwell