Don't agree with it at all, and feel for the loved ones left behind. I've known a few myself and will say that they never even gave a hint. They had their reasons so in a fd up kinda way you gotta respect it. Have an old college friend who contacted me a couple of years ago and is not doing well. I can't understand what happened to him. Guys on disability for being crazy I guess. On top of it a DWI has him grounded at his home which his parents pay for. Pick him up once a month when his food stamps are in to take him shopping where he buys a pack of steaks and hot dogs for the rest of the month. Stays drunk all day long and takes psyche pills crash every evening, then repeat the cycle. Finally just stopped talking to him. Can't stand to hear the whining and crying like a little bich. 45 year old looking for attention. I pray for him and hope he'll either man up, or stfu and take care of business.