I get that, and again, not judging. Just basing it on how I personally would roll. I would have ended it and moved on long ago were I in your situation.
Wanted to wait till my Kids were grown and successful in their own right.
From my standpoint, it looks like you were 1/2 successful - the kids are grown.
I've always been a curmudgeon - now I'm an old curmudgeon. ~Molɔ̀ːn Labé Skýla~
