It is said that a man can do some damages while in his forties but he can really fug up and destroy lives while in his fifties searching for the illusion of happiness.
Applies to women too, especially around menopause.
My wife is starting to go through it now and so far it's made her nicer! lol
I kid. She's always been nice but she isn't showing any signs of "menopause crazy" that you always hear about.