Back in the sixth grade we used to fight in a big group in the playground. Generally girls were bigger than guys at this point so there was little for sexual discrimination and a great deal of general equity. I see STXHunter bringing us in on a major life decision and then the entire convo goes sideways and I see so much T and E going that I can't tell who is fighting with who and what all of the particulars are in this flame war. It would be educational for some neutral party who has been gauging this debacle to give us points and wtf is going on.
