I don't agree with piling on either, but from the evidence uncovered, and the fact the kamo_gari received his butchered up shotgun barrel back, I'd hazard a fairly educated guess that your friend is way in the wrong here.

Perhaps to many, your continued requests to be a part of something meant to turn a bad situation into good, is seen as either blind acceptance of your friend's/acquaintance's errant behavior, or a lack of perspective on your part.

As nice a person as I believe you to be, I think it in everyone's best interest you no longer request to be a part of the expeditions of Stubbs. It does not appear that Leighton will ever let that happen, and it may perhaps tarnish your stellar reputation with others here.

If you haven't talked to him in a long time, perhaps now it the time to find out to your satisfaction just what happened?

Last edited by Valsdad; 06/21/21.

The desert is a true treasure for him who seeks refuge from men and the evil of men.
In it is contentment
In it is death and all you seek
(Quoted from "The Bleeding of the Stone" Ibrahim Al-Koni)

member of the cabal of dysfunctional squirrels?