Maybe you do, maybe you don't, I'm just saying people love to condemn others. Its a very common human trait, not confined to religion. I suppose its a way of feeling better about oneself by finding fault with someone else's actions, being able to say "I'd never do that, therefore I'm superior". Not accusing anyone specifically, just saying its what people do. I know I've caught myself doing it often enough.
I don't really see anyone playing a victim here, just a discussion of idea's with differing points of view being offered. Actually I think its been surprisingly civil so far.
Now as to your last sentence "matters not to me if you can deal with the consequences or not", I find that interesting. It just seems kind of un-Christ like, for lack of a better term. I'm not asking anyone to be too concerned about which consequences I may or may not face, it just kind of conflicts with what I was taught in church, to love your neighbor as yourself and so on.
