In general I benefit the most from a straight foward outline of a topic. I thought what bootsfishing posted was just that. For the past year I have been taking a friend who had gotten addicted to pain killer to a 12 step program called celebrate recovery. The best break down of the first three steps that I have ever heard is:
1) I can't
2) He can
3) I'm gonna let him

http://www.celebraterecovery.com/twelve.shtml

Please don't feed the trolls!